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Breathing in Your Purpose.


Chip’s Thought: I feel such a kinship with my fellow New Mexican, Zee, having jumped on that Hedonic Treadmill believing that happiness was just one more accomplishment down the road. This is Zee’s second time teaching at MEA (first time was in Baja) and I witnessed just how inspired people were from her teaching.

I did all the things they said to do. I went to Harvard for college because it was a world-renowned institution. I studied economics because they said it gave me the best shot at a well-paying job. I worked at some of the biggest and most known brands in the world because it would look good on my resume. I got an MBA from Harvard Business School because they said that was the next logistical step to successfully climb the corporate ladder. 

Go – Go – Go. 

Push – Push – Push. 

So when the long hours, constant fire-drills, coupled with the daily microaggressions as a Black executive in the tech industry, led to a burnout so severe it affected both my mental and physical health, I had to push pause.

It was in India when I first asked myself this question: “Who am I?” It was in India where I also asked myself, “Who do I want to be?” 

You are more than your resume. You are more than what you have done in the past. And, you have the agency and power to determine where you go next from here.

Our society is so focused on productivity that most of us never take the time to pause and really think about it. What we don’t realize is that this answer is inside of us, if we get quiet, if we truly listen to what our hearts have to say. 

My life purpose came to me during this moment of quiet, and for me, the breath was the key. It was through breathwork that I was able to access my subconscious mind, my higher self, the voice of my soul.

My book, Black People Breathe, was born from this moment of quiet. The stress management workshops I teach at companies like Google, Visa, and Procter & Gamble were born from this moment of quiet.

If you got really quiet, what do you think you would hear? Are you curious to find out?

In my August workshop in Santa Fe, “From Conventional to Intentional: Attune to Your Purpose,” we will go on a journey to release any previous notions of what you are “supposed to do.”  We will leverage a wide range of mindfulness and breathwork practices to open up the channels so that you can really listen to your heart’s desires. What are you meant to be doing next on this life journey? We will soothe any feelings of anxiety and self-doubt through powerful practices that have been used for thousands of years. 

Last year, I had a near death experience. Open to trying new things, I went on a white water rafting trip. The water levels were significantly higher than normal, and I was tossed out of the boat. Later I found out that I was sucked down a sinkhole. What I experienced in the moment was being fully conscious in a place where time and space didn’t seem to exist. All I saw was white. I had no body. I had no idea where I was. Panicked, I asked, “Is it over? Did it end? Just like that?”…and then, my inner voice screamed with all of my might:

“BUT I’M NOT DONE YET!” 

In an instant, I opened my eyes and saw the blue sky. I noticed I was back in the river. I quickly remembered the safety procedures as they threw the rope to rescue me. I don’t know how long I was under. When I finally got to safety, I was coughing up water, my breath clearly struggling.

I’m sharing this story to remind you that life is precious. Our time here is limited. You have special gifts that the world needs. Let’s breathe those gifts into life!

-Zee

Trained in India, Zee Clarke is a Harvard MBA who went from leading teams at Fortune 500 companies and startups in Silicon Valley to teaching stress management, resilience, and self-care tools so that we can be our best selves at work and in life. She has been featured in  Fortune, Forbes, CNBC, Oprah Daily, & Essence.

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