Thanksgiving at MEA: Gratitude & Awe in the High Desert

Nov 24 - Nov 29, 2025 in Santa Fe, USA
Led by: Mary Hofstedt, Darby Rose

Partial Scholarship Available. Apply Here.

Is a partial scholarship for you?

We believe in making personal growth and education accessible to everyone, which is why we offer partial scholarships on a needs-aware basis for many of our programs.

These scholarships support individuals facing financial challenges, including — but not limited to — members of underrepresented communities. If financial stress might prevent you from attending a workshop, we encourage you to apply.

Partial scholarships, provided through the Association for Growth and Education, are limited to 2–3 seats per workshop and reviewed in the order received. We recommend applying as soon as possible, as scholarship decisions are typically confirmed 90–120 days before the workshop date.

Thanksgiving Reimagined: A New Tradition Rooted in Gratitude, Wonder, and Connection

This Thanksgiving, celebrate what truly matters most with gratitude and intention, in the awe-inspiring beauty of Santa Fe’s high desert.

Here’s your chance to join other inspired community seekers for a five-day gathering that offers space to pause, reflect, and celebrate everything you have to be thankful for.

(Which is always more than you may imagine.)

Whether a traditional Thanksgiving celebration with family or family isn’t in the cards this year – or you’re looking for a new tradition to enjoy with people who make you feel seen and appreciated – this is your invitation to mark the season in a way that feeds your body, mind, heart, and soul. 

Across five days of perspective-shifting experiences such as morning circles, desert awe walks, creative rituals, shared feasts, and heartfelt conversations, you'll find a community that understands that family can be chosen – and the most meaningful celebrations are built on presence, not performance.

This is Thanksgiving reimagined: no expectations or obligations. No pressure or stress. Just space to feel, reflect, and celebrate what’s real.

Savor a Thanksgiving feast that feeds more than your appetite. During this five-day retreat, you’ll discover what happens when like-minded souls gather to celebrate abundance, trace life's meaningful moments, and plant seeds for what's next. Experience five days of gratitude and awe that will change how you see Thanksgiving forever.

What you’ll gain

Through a blend of intentional practices, a light curriculum, and immersive ranch experiences, you’ll come away sated and transformed in all the right ways.

  • Drop beneath the surface in soul-centered circles and meaningful conversations that foster connection, insight, and self-understanding.
  • Turn gratitude into a daily rhythm. Move beyond the once-a-year acknowledgment and explore ongoing gratitude through mindful moments in the beauty of the high desert.
  • Experience the grounding peace of horses. Spend time with our desert herd and feel what it means to be fully seen – no words required.
  • Unlock a deeper sense of awe through nature, community, and gratitude come together – and remember that life is still full of magic
  • Celebrate Thanksgiving as personal renewal, honoring who you're becoming while savoring an amazing feast curated by local chefs

Come prepared to be warmly welcomed whether you arrive solo, with a friend, or partner – the MEA community awaits.

Meet your faculty

Mary Hofstedt

MEA's Content Facilitator

Mary Hofstedt is an experienced non profit leader and educator who strives to advance a more hopeful, caring, and connected world.

Her passion for youth and community development led her to work with Challenge Success, spearhead a coalition of youth and adult partners to develop a community arts center, and serve for over a decade within Stanford University’s John W. Gardner Center. 

She recently wrapped up a mid-career break to reflect on purpose, study Spanish, travel, and volunteer with whale shark research and conservation. She serves as a Senior Associate with Heartwise Learning and is thrilled to be based back in Santa Fe after a 22 year stint in the Bay Area!

This workshop is for you if...

You're ready for a new Thanksgiving tradition that feeds your soul instead of draining your energy

You're craving meaningful connection that goes deeper than polite pleasantries

You're seeking a reset to reconnect with nature, your body, your purpose, and relationships that truly matter

You're curious about gratitude as a living practice – not just something you're supposed to feel once a year

You're drawn to the grace of midlife and ready to celebrate who you're becoming rather than who you've always been

You're excited to explore your "glimmers" – those sparks of possibility that hint at what wants to emerge next

Meet your MEA facilitators

Our trailblazing facilitators guide transformative journeys across our Santa Fe high desert sanctuary and Baja beach haven. From sunrise mountain hikes and meditations to collaborative experiences – each experience is designed to inspire growth, connection, and lasting change. 

Darby Rose

Experience Facilitator

Darby Rose is a multidisciplinary artist, arts administrator, cook, actor and animal lover, currently living in Santa Fe, NM. Born into a family of travelers in Austin, TX, she’s lived more places than she can count — all over Texas, Boston, Jackson WY, Baltimore and Los Angeles, to name a few; and outside the US in Peru and Italy. After a long stint in Marfa, TX, the vast, mountainous horizons and monsoons of New Mexico captured her. This travelers life has built in Darby a deep curiosity and compassion for others, and a gratitude for the beautiful complexities of the human condition, with its myriad expressions of love, humor, struggle and strength.

Do this powerful work on our beautiful regenerative ranch in Santa Fe

Santa Fe, USA

Rising Circle Ranch

An upscale regenerative ranch featuring traditional Pueblo architecture and spanning nearly 2,600 acres of wildlife, hiking trails in the arroyo, with ancient petroglyphs, and awe-inspiring beauty. Close to historic Santa Fe, an artisan’s mecca.

  • Big-sky desert country
  • Breathtaking nature
  • Interaction with horses and donkeys
  • Evenings around the campfire
  • Star-gazing

Your new Thanksgiving story starts here.

At Rising Circle Ranch, kindred spirits gather beneath the vast desert sky to share meaningful moments, witness each other’s transformations, and celebrate all that life offers. Here, community becomes a sacred space where appreciation grows and a sense of wonder is rekindled.

The circle is already forming – and there's a place with your name on it.

Are you ready to experience Thanksgiving as it was meant to be – intentional, meaningful, and rich with connection?

People come for the workshops,
but they stay for the community

This is truly MEA’s “secret sauce” and something you can only experience in person: the powerful connections you will make, not only with your fellow participants and the incredible MEA faculty, but also the deeper sense of connection you will feel to your own inner self and the natural world around you.

Research into aging shows that your relationships play a HUGE role in your health and wellbeing later in life. At MEA, you will make deep and lasting connections and become part of a larger community that will make your life richer and more meaningful.

Many of our alumni cohorts have stayed in close touch for years after their workshop and we have a growing number of local alumni chapters all over the world. It’s a joy for us to see them continuing to offer each other community, friendship, and support as they create thriving midlives for themselves. So if you have been feeling at all disconnected or isolated on your journey, we would love to have you join us!

Have we mentioned the food?

The MEA experience is designed in part by Chip Conley, a world-renowned boutique hotelier, which means the food is amazing.

All of the ingredients are locally sourced, organic, and made from scratch in our kitchens by hand-picked chefs. The delicious breakfasts, lunches and dinners will leave you feeling nourished inside and out – not to mention the blended drinks made with fresh fruit and other top-shelf ingredients. 


Each retreat center has multiple kitchens that always have snacks and beverages available. At MEA, we believe that thriving is delicious!

Your Workshop Includes

  • 5 days and nights of lodging at our boutique luxury retreat center in Baja or Santa Fe with all of your meals, snacks, drinks and other amenities included
  • Daily sessions and experiential activities to help you connect with your inner self, envision your desired experience, and release what no longer serves you
  • Meditation covering a range of practices to soothe your nervous system and help you cultivate greater mindfulness and presence in the moment.
  • Movement to get the energy flowing and build your strength and agility as you chart your course forward to the life you want to live.
  • Incredible bonding experiences with the most amazing humans you’ll ever meet.
  • Three delicious, chef-prepared meals plus snacks throughout the day prepared from scratch with the freshest local ingredients.
  • Festive gatherings to cultivate connection and celebrate the joy and beauty of life.

Tuition starts at

$3,000

Ready to start your journey?

Thanksgiving at MEA: Gratitude & Awe in the High Desert

Nov 24 - Nov 29, 2025 in Santa Fe, USA
Led by: Mary Hofstedt, Darby Rose

Step into your next chapter with confidence and ease, knowing that every detail of your experience is being taken care of by our world-class faculty and hospitality team.

Starting at

$3,000 per person

Partial Scholarship Available. Apply Here.

Is a partial scholarship for you?

We believe in making personal growth and education accessible to everyone, which is why we offer partial scholarships on a needs-aware basis for many of our programs.

These scholarships support individuals facing financial challenges, including — but not limited to — members of underrepresented communities. If financial stress might prevent you from attending a workshop, we encourage you to apply.

Partial scholarships, provided through the Association for Growth and Education, are limited to 2–3 seats per workshop and reviewed in the order received. We recommend applying as soon as possible, as scholarship decisions are typically confirmed 90–120 days before the workshop date.

Still deciding or have questions?
Connect with our helpful team of Advisors

Our Advisors are MEA alumni who've walked this path themselves. They offer genuine insights into our programs and are passionate about helping you find the perfect fit for your next chapter.

Daniel Booz

Lucas Erie

Leslie Bartlett