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MEA 3-Day Deep Dive

Modern Love: A Matchmaker's Secrets To Find Your Perfect Match

Feb 19 - 22, 2026 Santa Fe, USA
Rachel Greenwald

Celebrity matchmaker | Bestselling author | Harvard Business School Fellow

You’ve built a beautiful life – now it’s time to find the right person to share it with

You’ve figured out almost everything else in life – career, friendships, family, freedom.

So why does finding the right partner still feel so challenging?

Getting dates probably isn’t the problem. It’s finding the right dates.

You’ve met enough of the wrong ones to write a book. Some look perfect on paper but just don’t work in real life. Some disappear after a few great dinners. Some say they’re ready for something real – until they’re not.

Often you’re just too busy, or don’t know where to look, to date at all. Or, maybe you found the love of your life, only to lose them, and you’re not sure if you’re ready to open your heart again.

You’re left wondering, “Does the kind of person I’m looking for even exist?”

The truth? The world of dating has changed.

The “rules” you remember don’t apply anymore, and the old playbook doesn’t work in the modern landscape.

But that doesn’t mean you’re out of options. It just means it’s time to learn how to navigate this new reality – with clarity, confidence, and strategy – so you can finally stop playing the game and start building the connection you actually want.

Discover the secrets to finding love from one of the world’s most successful matchmakers

A Harvard-trained matchmaker and bestselling author, Rachel Greenwald has spent over two decades helping smart, successful people find love that meets them at their level – love that’s genuine, mutual, and lasting.

Now she’s coming to Rising Circle Ranch with a transformative three-day workshop that will teach you what really works in the world of modern dating. In an intimate small-group setting at our luxury retreat center, you’ll learn the exclusive matchmaker secrets she’s shared with Fortune 500 executives, Forbes 400 members, professional athletes, celebrities, and more – revealing how to approach finding love with the same confidence, clarity, and intention that has fueled every other success in your life.

With her trademark mix of candor, humor, and hard-earned wisdom, Rachel will empower you to approach connection in a whole new way – one rooted in genuine possibility.

During your three days with Rachel, you will…

Reframe how you think about finding love. Learn why success in dating today isn’t about luck or youth – it’s about clarity, mindset, and modern strategy.

Decode the new rules of connection. Understand how the dating landscape has changed and what really works now. (It’s not what you think!)

Identify dating blind spots – are there unintentional signals you’re sending that have eluded connection with the kind of partner you’re looking for?

Recognize compatibility faster. Discover short cuts to identify genuine alignment early on and stop wasting time on mismatched connections.

Turn intention into action. Create a personalized plan – and the momentum – to align your time, energy, and focus with the relationship you truly want.

Rediscover optimism and agency in love. Leave with renewed confidence, practical next steps, and the knowledge that the right relationship is possible and within reach.

This Workshop
Is For You If…

  • You’ve built a meaningful, successful life – but the love you want still feels elusive
  • You believe new love is possible and worth the effort (if someone could help you accomplish this goal efficiently).
  • You’re tired of going on dates that lead nowhere and ready to learn a new research-backed approach that actually works (from a Harvard trained expert).
  • You want to attract a partner who meets you as an equal – emotionally, intellectually, and in life stage.
  • You’ve tried apps, fix-ups, and leaving it up to luck and are ready to do it differently now.
  • You’re ready to feel excited, confident, and have some fun while getting real results

Meet Your Faculty

Why are you single? It doesn’t matter. The important question is not why you are single, but what are you going to do about it?

~ Rachel Greenwald ~

Rachel Greenwald

Celebrity Matchmaker | Bestselling Author | Harvard Business School Fellow

Rachel Greenwald is a celebrity matchmaker and dating coach. Since launching Greenwald Executive Matchmaking in 2003, she has been responsible for more than 900 marriages.

A New York Times bestselling author of Find a Husband After 35: Using What I Learned at Harvard Business School and Have Him at Hello: Confessions from 1,000 Guys About What Makes Them Fall in Love . . . Or Never Call Back, she’s known for her data-driven, psychology-informed approach that has helped so many clients create meaningful, lasting relationships.

In addition to her private practice, Rachel is an Executive Fellow at Harvard Business School, where she helps faculty in courses focused on interpersonal relationships, communication, authentic leadership, and personal branding. She’s been featured on CNN, The Today Show, ABC Nightline, and NPR, and her insights have appeared in The New York Times, The New Yorker, Fortune, and Forbes.

  • A trusted expert with real results. Rachel has helped Fortune 500 CEOs, successful start-up founders, professional athletes, celebrities and more find relationships that feel as strong and fulfilling as the lives they’ve built.
  • A grounded voice in a noisy industry. In a world full of “woo-woo” dating advice, Rachel’s advice is refreshingly honest, research-based, and proven to work in today’s complex dating landscape. Her MBA background has shaped her practical, action-oriented approach to dating. It’s not rocket science, but it’s definitely a skill– just like learning a foreign language.
  • An empowering guide for modern relationships. Her work is about far more than finding a romantic partner; it’s about feeling empowered to succeed in all your relationships in love, work, friendship and family– at every life stage.

Supported By the MEA Team

Amie Tullius

MEA Experience Facilitator

Amie Tullius is a New Mexico-based writer, gallerist, and creative collaborator. She’s spent over a decade as a gallery director, helped launch an international dance company, and has profiled and promoted artists and creators from around the world. She has an MFA in writing an ...

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Daniel 'DL' Landes

Experience Facilitator

Before joining MEA, Daniel “DL” Landes spent decades as a restauranteur, author, and publisher. As the owner of multiple restaurants in Denver, CO – and then a hostel in Mexico – he dedicated himself to creating environments where people could work out their humanity whil ...

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What you'll gain

A new lens on modern love.

Understand what’s really happening in today’s dating world – and how small, strategic shifts can completely change your results.

Real-world tools that work.

Learn the same proven methods Rachel learned at Harvard Business School and has used with hundreds of successful clients to meet (and keep) the right kind of partner.

A reset for how you approach connection.

Replace frustration and fatigue with a practical, empowering approach that makes dating feel productive – even fun – again.

A personalized roadmap forward.

Leave Santa Fe with clear next steps, fresh energy, and the skills to find and turn promising dates into meaningful relationships

Our Agenda at a Glance

Monday:

Tuesday:

Wednesday:

Thursday:

4:00 PM: Arrival / Check-In

6:30 PM: Welcome Reception & Dinner

8:00 PM: Orientation Session

Friday:

7:30 AM: Mindful Movement

8:30 AM: Breakfast

10:00 AM: Classroom Time

1:15 PM: Lunch

2:00 PM: Classroom Time

6:30 PM: Dinner

8:00 PM: Evening Gathering

Saturday:

7:30 AM: Mindful Movement

8:30 AM: Breakfast

10:00 AM: Classroom Time

1:15 PM: Lunch

2:00 PM: Classroom Time

6:30 PM: Dinner

8:00 PM: Evening Gathering

Sunday:

8:30 AM: Breakfast

10:00 AM: Checkout / Departure

*Please note that not all “classroom time” activities take place in the actual classroom.

Step into transformation in the high desert

Rising Circle Ranch | Santa Fe, USA.

Our spectacular Santa Fe campus is located on an upscale regenerative ranch featuring traditional Pueblo architecture and nearly 2,600 acres of wildlife, hiking trails in the arroyo, and awe-inspiring beauty. Close to historic Santa Fe, an artisan’s mecca.

PLUS: Gourmet from-scratch meals, snacks, and drinks featuring locally sourced ingredients, made by our in-house chefs

  • Big-sky desert country
  • Breathtaking nature
  • Interaction with horses and donkeys
  • Evenings around the campfire
  • Star-gazing

Explore the ranch
on horseback

Our Rising Circle Ranch spans 2,600 acres of New Mexico high desert, offering guided horseback riding for all experience levels through diverse terrains under the vast Southwest sky

You’ll experience highlights like:

  • Wildlife habitats and arroyo trails
  • Ancient petroglyphs
  • Breathtaking high desert vistas
  • The tranquil setting of our regenerative ranch

Horseback riding is an optional add-on activity you can book once you arrive on the ranch. Whether you’re seasoned or brand new to horseback adventures, this guided experience lets you discover the ranch’s natural wonders alongside our gentle horses.

Your Workshop Includes:

  • 3 nights of lodging at our world-class retreat center at Rising Circle Ranch, Santa Fe with all of your meals, snacks, drinks and other amenities included
  • Daily sessions and experiential activities to help you connect with your inner self, envision your desired experience, and release what no longer serves you
  • Mindfulness practices to soothe your nervous system and help you cultivate greater mindfulness and presence in the moment
  • Movement to get the energy flowing and build your strength and agility as you chart your course forward to the life you want to live
  • Incredible bonding experiences with the most amazing humans you’ll ever meet
  • Intimate gatherings to cultivate connection and celebrate the joy and beauty of life

Ready to stop wondering, “Where are all The Good Ones?

During your three days with Rachel in an intimate small-group setting surrounded by luxury and the beauty of the high desert, you’ll learn how to approach love with the same strategy and discernment that have guided your success everywhere else in life

You’ll leave with:

  • A proven framework for finding love that actually fits who you are today
  • Tools to navigate today’s modern dating with confidence and ease
  • Personalized feedback from one of the world’s top matchmakers
  • Practical steps to turn dating from a chore into genuine connection
  • A renewed sense of possibility– and a clear plan to turn that expectation into results

Stop leaving love to chance – and discover what actually works.

Book your spot today

Modern Love: A Matchmaker's Secrets To Find Your Perfect Match

Feb 19 - 22, 2026 Santa Fe, USA
Starting at
$2,600 per person
I attended Rachel’s retreat in 2023 and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. She taught me a new approach to dating after my divorce. I met my (now) husband two months after the retreat because of her advice and inspiration. I have never left a review like this before, but had to share my great experience. Highly recommend!
Marla B.
Phoenix, AZ
As a CEO with over 700 employees, I didn’t have time to date. But if I’m being honest, I also didn’t even know how to date. I was widowed after 31 years of marriage and things had really changed since the last time I was single. Rachel helped me think about finding love through a new lens, and it didn’t require dating to be another full-time job (I already have one of those!). I quickly met an incredible woman (Hi Jan!) and we have been traveling all over the world together!
Troy S.
Boston, MA
I was very reluctant to attend a retreat to find love again. My 19-year-old daughter actually made me sign up! I was surprised that everyone was so friendly and we were all in the same boat: accomplished people doing great in our lives, except couldn’t figure out the dating puzzle. I learned so many practical tips from Rachel, plus I made two new friends I still keep in touch with. One of those women from the group actually fixed me up with her cousin after the retreat, and we clicked! Honestly, he’s everything I (didn’t even know I) was looking for. I want to send you a huge thank you, Rachel. You changed my life!
Catherine L.
Santa Barbara, CA

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is this workshop for?

This experience is for anyone who’s successful in most areas of life but feels stuck or frustrated when it comes to finding the right partner. Many participants are single, divorced, or widowed — and ready to learn a smarter, more effective approach to love.

Do I need to be actively dating to attend?

Not at all. Some guests are taking a break from dating, others are back out there, and some aren’t sure where to start. Rachel’s framework applies to every stage – whether you’re preparing to re-enter the dating world or simply want to understand how to find a relationship that fits your life today.

Is this workshop specific to any age, gender or sexual orientation?

No – this workshop is open and relevant to everyone. That said, the content often resonates most strongly with those who are navigating dating and relationships later in life.

What if I’m skeptical that love can still happen for me?

You’re in the right place. Many participants arrive feeling frustrated or doubtful – and leave with renewed optimism and a practical plan for moving forward. This isn’t about wishful thinking; it’s about learning what truly works.

What’s included in the tuition?

Your tuition includes all programming, three nights of accommodations, chef-prepared meals, snacks, drinks, and full access to MEA’s spectacular Rising Circle Ranch campus in Santa Fe. The only additional costs are transportation to the venue and any personal incidentals.

How do I know if financial aid is available to me?

MEA offers financial assistance on a needs-aware basis to make our programs accessible. If cost is the only thing holding you back, we encourage you to apply for assistance when registering.

What if I’m not sure this workshop is right for me?

We’re happy to help. Book a free call with our team, and we’ll help you decide based on your goals, circumstances, and where you are in your journey toward love.

Still deciding or have questions?
Connect with our helpful team of Advisors

Our Advisors are all MEA alumni who can offer genuine insights into our programs. They’re passionate about helping you finding the right fit to make your next chapter the best one.

Daniel Booz

Lucas Erie

Leslie Bartlett