Social Battery

I was recently teaching a week with poet and author Mark Nepo on friendship. I took pages of notes and had dozens of ideas and inspirations about the practice of

Social Battery

New Technology is a New Opportunity to Learn

Here I sit, in rural Vermont, at age 58—enjoying the “messy middle” and plotting my next act.At 58, my father retired. I’m lucky enough to still have him and my

New Technology is a New Opportunity to Learn

We Wear Too Many Hats in Midlife

MY SOUL HAS A HATI counted my yearsAnd realized that I haveLess time to live by,Than I have lived so far.I feel like a child who won a pack of

We Wear Too Many Hats in Midlife

The Wisdom of a 33-Year-Old

Based upon this premise, it means the older you are, the more raw material you have to be wise. But, that doesn’t always mean the older person is the wiser

The Wisdom of a 33-Year-Old

When a Ritual Becomes a Routine

As our Baja shaman tells us each week, to an outsider, a ritual may look strange. Why do those Catholics eat a bread wafer and wine? And, yet, to those

When a Ritual Becomes a Routine

Are We on the Verge of a Population Collapse?

This belief suggested we might not have enough food to go around and that Mother Earth will be irreparably damaged by all these billions of people feasting on scarce environmental

Are We on the Verge of a Population Collapse?

Midlife is the Gateway to Generativity

The best lens to use in approaching any decision in your life is to choose based upon whether we want to discover who we’ll become. Midlife isn’t about managing your

Midlife is the Gateway to Generativity

What My Older Self Could Teach My Younger Self

On my 63rd birthday, I reflected on three things I wish my older self could have shared with my younger self.Self-Awareness I can’t stress this enough. Do whatever it takes to

What My Older Self Could Teach My Younger Self

The Myth of “Having It All Figured Out”

I sold my company Joie de Vivre in 2010 after two-dozen years of painstakingly growing it into one of the largest boutique hotel companies in the world. On the outside,

The Myth of “Having It All Figured Out”

The Value of Juggling

Getting older means learning how to juggle with intention. It’s no longer about avoiding dropping the balls or worrying about how many we’re holding. It’s about becoming comfortable with the

The Value of Juggling