We all know introverts and extroverts. But what about the “worktrovert”? This isn’t exactly a workaholic, someone addicted to 80-hour weeks or climbing the corporate ladder in order to feel worthwhile. A worktrovert is the person who prefers the company of projects over people, who finds refuge in tasks rather than small talk. They use their work as a means of not having to socialize.
For the worktrovert, “Sorry, I’m busy with work” isn’t just an excuse—it’s a lifestyle. They’d rather be immersed in spreadsheets, designs, or writing than at a cocktail party or family dinner. Work offers both structure and solitude, a way to feel purposeful without navigating the unpredictability of human interaction.
That doesn’t mean worktroverts don’t care about people. In fact, many deeply value relationships. It’s just that the social landscape can feel like a minefield, while work feels like solid ground. The trick is noticing when “using work as cover” stops being protective and starts becoming isolating.
So… are you a worktrovert? Take this quick quiz:
The Worktrovert Quiz
- Do you find yourself volunteering for extra work to avoid social gatherings?
- Does finishing a project feel more rewarding than mingling at a party?
- Do you often say “I’m too busy” when what you really mean is “I’d rather not”?
- Do you feel more yourself in front of a laptop than in a crowd?
- Does work give you a sense of identity or comfort that social settings rarely provide?
If you nodded yes more than three times, welcome to the club—you might be a worktrovert. Nothing wrong with that. Just remember: life isn’t only about deadlines; sometimes it’s about lifelines.
-Chip