When I was in high school, shortcuts showed up as Cliff Notes and Evelyn Wood speed-reading classes—promising smarter, faster versions of ourselves without the messy middle. Today’s shortcuts are far

December 15, 2025

If you’re in the second half of life, you’ve already earned a kind of wisdom that younger versions of you couldn’t have imagined. You know what matters. You’ve lived enough

December 14, 2025

How we start the year and what rituals we welcome into our lives can have a profound influence on how we experience our year. That’s why Teddi Dean (and I)

December 13, 2025

So we listened. This year, we’re launching a new format at MEA Santa Fe: powerful 3- and 4-night workshops designed for those who want the essence of MEA in a

December 12, 2025

On November 30, the New York Times offered an Op-Ed from Cathi Hanauer with the title of today’s blog post. Cathi co-founded the NYT “Modern Love” with her husband Daniel

December 11, 2025

If I had to distill midlife into a single insight, it’s this: wisdom is simply evolution put to work—the ability to turn experience into better decisions. Not the decisions we

December 10, 2025

A lot. Not just the occasional “Where did I put my keys?” but full-blown commentary on squirrels, grocery store produce, and whether French fries at 10:30 a.m. count as breakfast.

December 9, 2025

Maybe that’s part of entering life’s wisdom era—you start naming the things you’ve lived enough to recognize. So as the year winds down, I’ve been reflecting on five of my

December 8, 2025

My motorcycle sleeps like a horse – standing. Yet I found it laying on the ground, dragged violently in this Colorado Rockies hotel’s parking lot; broken light, ripped pads and

December 7, 2025

I danced with the road, meandering on my motorcycle through a forest once consumed by fire. Out of charred remains, new shoots of life were already rising – signs of

December 6, 2025

I watched a film recently, Come See Me in the Good Light, that had me crying and laughing. It reminded me of my tenacity and grace when it comes to

December 5, 2025

That paradox is at the heart of Ruthie Foster’s beautiful song “Mileage.” She sings about the quiet depth that comes from the miles we’ve lived—the heartbreaks, the reinventions, the unexpected

December 4, 2025