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Sometimes life offers up a perfectly timed—if painful—reminder that midlife is less about crisis and more about resilience, reinvention, and reckoning. Mine arrived face-first on the streets of Austin during

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April 3, 2025

James Hollis is one of those modern elders. I’ve followed his writing for decades and love how he’s elevated and popularized so many Jung-isms from “life is a short pause

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There’s a certain pride in knowing you still can. You can still climb that ladder, still work 60-hour weeks, still lead the meeting, still power through. But should you?One of

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Back in May of 2024, I was reminded that there’s a fine line between terrifying and exhilarating.I was in Santa Fe, attending a five-day MEA workshop, Finding Your Rhythm in

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Turning 50 last year felt like a significant milestone. The Christmas previous, my family and I were discussing New Year’s resolutions, and I declared two goals for 2024: to feel

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I don’t know about you, but I’m a sucker for great travel photography so when I saw this recent Architectural Digest article on the Most Beautiful Places, my jaw dropped.

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