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The House of Belonging

David Whyte

I awoke
this morning
in the gold light
turning this way
and that

thinking for
a moment
it was one
day
like any other.

But
the veil had gone
from my
darkened heart
and
I thought

it must have been the quiet
candlelight
that filled my room,

it must have been
the first
easy rhythm
with which I breathed
myself to sleep,

it must have been
the prayer I said
speaking to the otherness
of the night.

And
I thought
this is the good day
you could
meet your love,

this is the gray day
someone close
to you could die.

This is the day
you realize
how easily the thread
is broken
between this world
and the next

and I found myself
sitting up
in the quiet pathway
of light,

the tawny
close grained cedar
burning round
me like fire
and all the angels of this housely
heaven ascending
through the first
roof of light
the sun has made.

This is the bright home
in which I live,
this is where
I ask
my friends
to come,
this is where I want
to love all the things
it has taken me so long
to learn to love.

This is the temple
of my adult aloneness
and I belong
to that aloneness
as I belong to my life.

There is no house
like the house of belonging.

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There are voices that inspire you and voices that gently corner you into telling yourself the truth. David’s is the second kind.

This beautiful short video pairs his essay “Gratitude” with an original score by drummer Mark Guiliana. 

David’s bringing this same presence to Santa Fe in March for Crossing the Unknown Sea – four days of poetry and deep conversation to help you shed what no longer fits and find clearer language for what’s calling.

About the Author

David Whyte

Poet | Founder, Invitas: The Institute for Conversational Leadership | Author of The Heart Aroused: Poetry & the Preservation of the Soul in Corporate America

For over three decades, David Whyte has been using poetry to crack open the questions that matter most. His work explores the conversational nature of reality – the idea that we are constantly in dialogue with life itself, and that our willingness to engage in that conversation determines the richness of our experience.

As the author of 10 books of poetry and four prose works, including The Heart Aroused, which brought soul-language into corporate America, David pioneered an unlikely synthesis. He showed executives and organizations that poetic insight isn’t decorative or abstract, but essential to navigating complexity, change, and the human dimensions of leadership.

His voice is sought everywhere from Fortune 100 boardrooms to Himalayan monasteries, from leadership retreats to sold-out readings where audiences experience the power of hearing difficult truths spoken beautifully. A trained marine zoologist and naturalist, David carries a scientist’s precision and a poet’s reverence for mystery. He understands both the geological, biological world and the inner one, where identity, longing, and transformation unfold.

Soulful Provocateur: Guides people to shed worn-out identities and listen for the life waiting to be lived—the one they’re already halfway toward but afraid to claim.

Language as Liberation: Uses words the way light moves through water, illuminating what’s hidden beneath the surface of our most complex passages.

Conversational Pioneer: Founded Invitas, an institute devoted to reviving the lost art of courageous conversation – the kind that changes both speaker and listener.

“A sure sign of a soul-based workplace is excitement, enthusiasm, real passion; not manufactured passion, but real involvement. And there’s very little fear.” – David Whyte

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